As everyone knows by now, last week I was dumped via text message by my married boyfriend. And this got me to thinking, if I was stupid enough to get involved with a married man, then there must be other girls out there who have fallen into a similar trap. I learned the hard way that dating a married man can only lead to unhappiness in your future. So here’s why you should never, ever, date a married man….even if he has great hair, calls you honey bunny, and looks amazing in a uniform.
- He’s married to someone else. Therefore he’s just not that into YOU.
- He liked it so much he already put a ring on it; problem is that now he’ll never be able to afford putting a ring your finger.
- His idea of a fun date is staying at home and watching TV because that’s what men do best when they’ve been in a relationship for long time. They can’t remember how to properly “woo” a girl.
- He can’t afford to take you out to nice dinners because he’s still supporting his wife and her lavish lifestyle.
- He doesn’t like to be seen in public with you even when you’re wearing your most flattering jeans with heels out of fear that he’ll run into his wife.
- He’s not good at breaking-up with a girl. This is why he is still married to his wife and dating you at the same time. You can most definitely expect a text message dump in your near future.
- He’s not an honest person. So when he tells you that it’s over between him and his wife, in boy language this really means that him and his wife will be resolving their differences in the very near future.
- When he says things like, “they’ll be lots of vacations, dinners, and romantic evenings together in our future”. What he really means is that he’ll be doing all of these fantastic things with his wife; not you.
- His relationship status on Facebook reads, “Married to My Wife” rather than “In a complicated relationship with someone awesome who’s not my wife”.
- When he tells you he’s one hot mess, you tend to only focus on the “hot” part of that statement. Shift your focus to the “mess” part. This is a much more accurate description of who he is.
So, if you’re dating a married man, quickly re-think your relationship with him, and move on to someone new and preferably not married. I can pretty much guarantee you that in no time your married boyfriend will be getting back together with his wife and she’ll be the one running her fingers through his amazing head of hair. And all you’ll have to remember him by is the text message that he sends you when he decides to dump you. Just think, the sooner you decide to get out of your relationship with your married man, the sooner you’ll be having some hot guy in a uniform calling you honey bunny again.